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英语关于父爱的演讲稿篇1

if i speak in the tongues of men and of angels, but have not love, i am only a resounding gong or a clanging cymbal. if i have the gift of prophecy and can fathom all mysteries and all knowledge, and if i have a faith that can move mountains, but have not love, i am nothing. if i give all i possess to the poor and surrender my body to the flames, but have not love, i gain nothing.

love is patient, love is kind. it does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. it is not rude, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs.

love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. it always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.

love never fails. but where there are prophecies, they will cease; where there are tongues, they will be stilled; where there is knowledge, it will pass away. for we know in part and we prophesy in part, but when perfection comes, the imperfect disappears. when i was a child, i talked like a child, i thought like a child, i reasoned like a child. when i became a man, i put childish ways behind me. now we see but a poor reflection as in a mirror; then we shall see face to face. now i know in part; then i shall know fully, even as i am fully known. and now these three remain: faith, hope and love. but the greatest of these is love.

it hurts to love someone and not be loved in return. but what is more painful is to love someone and never find the courage to let that person know how you feel.

a sad thing in life is when you meet someone who means a lot to you, only to find out in the end that it was never meant to be and you just have to let go.

the best kind of friend is the kind you can sit on a porch swing with, never say a word, and then walk away feeling like it was the best conversation you've ever had.

it's true that we don't know what we've got until we lose it, but it's also true that we don't know what we've been missing until it arrives.

it takes only a minute to get a crush on someone, an hour to like someone, and a day to love someone but it takes a lifetime to forget someone. don't go for looks; they can deceive. don't go for wealth, even that fades away. go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright.

dream what you want to dream; go where you want to go; be what you want to be, because you have only one life and one chance to do all the things you want to do.

always put yourself in the other's shoes. if you feel that it hurts you, it probably hurts the person too.

a careless word may kindle strife; a cruel word may wreck a life; a timely word may level stress; a loving word may heal and bless.

the happiest of people don't necessarily have the best of everything they just make the most of everything that comes along their way.

love begins with a smile, grows with a kiss, ends with a tear. when you were born, you were crying and everyone around you was smiling. live your life so that when you die, you're the one smiling and everyone around you is crying.

there was once a guy who suffered from cancer, a cancer that can?'t be cured. he was 18 years old and he could die anytime. all his life, he was stuck in his house being taken cared by his mother. he never went outside but he was sick of staying home and wanted to go out for once. so he asked his mother and she gave him permission.

he walked down his block and found a lot of stores. he passed a cd store and looked through the front door for a second as he walked. he stopped and went back to look into the store. he saw a beautiful girl about his age and he knew it was love at first sight. he opened the door and walked in, not looking at anything else but her. he walked closer and closer until he was finally at the front desk where she sat.

she looked up and asked, “can i help you?”

she smiled and he thought it was the most beautiful smile he has ever seen before and wanted to kiss her right there.

he said, “uh… yeah… umm… i would like to buy a cd.”

he picked one out and gave her money for it.

"would you like me to wrap it for you?” she asked, smiling her cute smile again.

he nodded and she went to the back. she came back with the wrapped cd and gave it to him. he took it and walked out of the store.

he went home and from then on, he went to that store every day and bought a cd, and she wrapped it for him. he took the cd home and put it in his closet. he was still too shy to ask her out and he really wanted to but he couldn't. his mother found out about this and told him to just ask her. so the next day, he took all his courage and went to the store as usual. he bought a cd like he did every day and once again she went to the back of the store and came back with it wrapped. he took it and when she wasn't looking, he left his phone number on the desk and ran out…

one day the phone rang, and the mother picked it up and said, “hello?”

it was the girl! the mother started to cry and said, “you don?'t know? he passed away yesterday…”

the line was quiet except for the cries of the boy's mother. later in the day, the mother went into the boy?'s room because she wanted to remember him. she thought she would start by looking at his clothes. so she opened the closet.

she was face to face with piles and piles and piles of unopened cds. she was surprised to find all these cds and she picked one up and sat down on the bed and she started to open one. inside, there was a cd and as she took it out of the wrapper, out fell a piece of paper. the mother picked it up and started to read it. it said: hi… i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.

the mother was deeply moved and opened another cd…

again there was a piece of paper. it said: hi… i think u r really cute. do u wanna go out with me? love, jocelyn.

love is… when you?'ve had a huge fight but then decide to put aside your egos, hold hands and say, “i love you.”

英语关于父爱的演讲稿篇2

good morning, ladies and gentlemen, i’m very glad to make a speech here. today my topic is “i love you, china.”

since the day i was born, i began to have a proud name—chinese. since the day i began to talk, the most beautiful sentence i’ve ever learnt has been “i love you, china!”

i love you, china, and i’m so proud of being a chinese. i’m proud that i’ve got the beautiful yellow skin, black eyes and black hair. i’m also proud that i speak the most beautiful language in the world—chinese.

i love you, china, for i can feel the deep love you give me every day, every minute. last year, i got an opportunity to visit the united states of america. during my staying there, my father’s boss once invited my family to dinner. while at , he looked at me and asked: “little boy, how long have you been in america?” “about a month,” i answered, “how lucky you are!” he said, “if you were living in china, how could you learn such perfect english?” i smiled and told him proudly that all the students in china are able to learn english at school. i saw his surprised eyes and said to myself, “i’m proud of you, china ”

早上好，女士们，先生们，我非常高兴在这里发表演讲。今天我演讲的题目是“我爱你，中国。”

从我出世的那一天，我开始有一个骄傲的名字中国。自从我开始说话，我学过的最美丽的句子是“我爱你，中国！“

我爱你，中国，我很自豪作为一个中国人。我很自豪，我已经得到了美丽的黄皮肤，黑眼睛和黑头发。我也很自豪，我说最美丽的语言在世界上的中国。

我爱你，中国，我可以感受到深深的爱你给我每一天，每一分钟。去年，我有机会去美国美国。在我呆在那里，我父亲的老板曾经邀请我的家人共进晚餐。同时，他看着我问：“小男孩，你在美国多久了？“大约一个月，”我回答，“你是多么的幸运！”他说，“如果你生活在中国，你怎么能这么完美的学习英语？“我笑着告诉他自豪地说所有的中国学生都能在学校学英语。我看到他惊讶的眼睛，对自己说，“我为你感到骄傲，中国”

英语关于父爱的演讲稿篇3

my dear friends,

do you know what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world? money? you may lose everything you have if you don't use money careful enough.youth?in one's long life youth is like a flash in the pan and no one in the world has the secret to keep his youth forever. beautiful look? many people pray that they can get hold of beauty, but it disappears far more quickly than they can imagine. and when they are in real trouble beauty itself feels helpless. a good job? as you grow older and your brain and hands can't work as fast as before. it will become other people's wealth.

then what is the most precious and everlasting thing in the world?

when you are far away from your family and feel especially lonely, who will you think of? when you stand on the crossroad in your life and don't know which way to choose, who will you think of? when you encounter greater difficulties than ever and need other's encouragement, who will you think of? when you decide to make the greatest decision in your favorite course, which shed cheerful tears when see you get achievements? whose wholehearted blessing will be always with you no matter how far you will go?

yes, its mother who you will always think of and it's mother's love that will be always be with you.

i once heard a moving story about a mother. two children were drawn into the flood and the situation was very dangerous. their mother jumped into the water without hesitation. but the mother couldn't swim at all. jumping into the water means she might lose her life. but at that time she had no time to think about herself. she just wanted to try all means to save her children. maybe her courage touched the god. the miracle happened. she finally succeeded in saving her both children. and she, of course, felt extremely exhausted.

my friends, mother’s love is the greatest love. mother’s love is the safest love. no matter you are happy or depressed, rich or poor, mother’s love will always stay with you.

英语关于父爱的演讲稿篇4

only mother love is true love .it's gives everybody everything in all his life ,when you are still a baby ,mother takes good care of you as much as possible.in your waking hour she always holds you in her arms.when you are ill,she stop her work right now to look after you day and night and forgets about herself.when you are growing up day by day,she feels very happy.when you are old enough to go to school,mother still looks after you all the time.on cold winter days,she always tells you to put on more clothes.she always stands in the window waiting for you back from school.when you are hurry to leave home for school for breakfast ,she feels worried about you at home.she usually knows about your study and spends much money on your school things .when you do well at school .you will see the brightset smile on her face.

mother is ailways ready to give everything she has to her children ,not to receive.

what true love that is in the world !we will remember mother love forever .

every one of us,rich or poor,should at least have one or two good friends.my friends will listen to me when i want to speak,will wipe my eyes when i cry,will take care of me when i am sick,and my friends will go together with me side by side through this journey of life.

as students,we could share more time with our friends.the friendship in our young hearts is pure,fresh and simple.i often feel very lucky to have a lot of good friends.especially when i had justin as one of my best friends.justin was my english teacher from the usa.i met him in 1996 when i was a student who could only speak very little english.justin was a vivid young man with a bright smile on his face,and he always had his special way to make the class active and attractive.he taught us english by telling stories,playing games,singing songs,and even dancing.i could still remember very clearly that one afternoon when we fin-ished our class,we went to some other classes to sing songs for them,just like what people do in the states on christmas eve.

it was so interesting and unforgettable.justin was an excellent teacher,because he taught us not only how to study english well,but also the way to find out the beauty of the world and the way to be angels to others' lives.i know there was friendship and pure love in our hearts.facing this valuable emotion neither nationality nor age was important,the real importance lay in faith,under-standing,and care.justin is the best friend i have ever had,and i know i will cherish those days of staying together with him as the best part of my memory.

friendship is a kind of treasure in our lives.it is actually like a bottle of wine,the longer it is kept,the sweeter it will be.it is also like a cup of tea.when we are thirsty,it will be our best choice,but when we have enough time to enjoy ourselves,it is also the most fragrant drink.

英语关于父爱的演讲稿篇5

what's the true love?what's the puppy love?for students in the college.we are looking for thing called"love",we do enjoy walking around with him or her .just prefer to have classes or have meals with him or her.have you considered if it is the true love.that is the puppy love.the meaning of puppy love is simple---when we were young.we meet the first love and enjoy it .actually we don't understand what the true love is.true is a power which help us or encourage us to progress for our future.may be we don't have to meet everyday,we just miss each other and be willing to assume responsibility togehter to make a family.that 's true.we haven't been old enough to find the true love.

英语关于父爱的演讲稿篇6

is a national territory that aureate autumn scan widely 9,600,000 square kilometers again up, all over the place golden, prosperous brocade, the high building stands erect, coal ocean current gold, ocean yang wave, the great wall dances.

in autumn, always bring people pleased celebrate, bring poetry, bring fancy, bring to imagine, bring a hope more, but this year's autumn, not- same sort, more and not and usually.in this fine season, arrive to°from chiang-nan water country a northland backland, from the gan river strand to pull sa lin ka, hot soils of republic each square kilometer soak through exultant and happiness, flow to drip sweet with sing.1,300,000,000 china childrens with heroic the singing arousing more put to fly aureate ideal and imagining of rose and put to fly hard go such as the conviction of huge rock and the poem lauding to the great motherland.

ha, the motherland, my mother, celebrates the quarter of your birthday 60 anniversaries in the joys, i have a boiling passion, thoughts and feelings surge.we want to speak to you how much considerate words son, have how much laudatory song son sing to you.60 years, at be just fillip in the mankind's history long river a flick, however, great of the motherland occurrence turns over the variety that sky replies ground.everywhere is change with each passing day of creation.everywhere is canvass business to lead a property and promote the big current of economic development.i imitate the red ship that the buddha sees south lake to bathe the gold hui of the sun, to drive today.the red flag of well kang-shan, the cuckoo smiles dimple and reflects the mountain is red of strong the united states is like of the red glow at sunset style style float.the hot breeze of pagoda mountain postpones arousing of river water wave, the story of green yarn debt rides on the qiong syrup of yellow river and conceived the children of ten million heros.

ha, the ancient great wall starts to stand unyielding chest, yangtze river dashing about turns over a radiant wave flower, a long distance steppe resounds the matouqin voice of deep feeling and pull sa lin ka is spreading to herd a people to rush toward the happy song joke of middle-class family.hence, i see up broad earth in the motherland, china children in in the whole world lead to utter high song.the joys celebrates a mother 60-year-old birthday in motherland, sends best regards to the motherland in the name of republic children and blesses for mother.

ha, motherland, you are like one fan of leaf hope and drove from the republic founded a nation the long long gun salute voice of big dian;drove from mt. heaven the foot hot tile just with the three-stringed piano moving musical sound;drove from the yellow river aroused a more rising big wave voice and ten thousand precinct chief, river, the ship work number son voice of the male hun;the absolute being state no.5 cosmos airship that embarked from yang li wei of aerospace hero roamed about at pleasure to drive in the good news of space;blue print and country that developed from reform in the city wealthy civilization fantasy drove in the song.hence, i see the spring breeze blow into a hundred million happy doors and windows, heardthe story in spring resounding through china the earth.the broad sea jiang flies fast heroic war boat, western backland again teng rise hurtle the rocket in sky.it was glorious in the boundless process of half several centuries, there is frustrate.the chinese of diligence braveness leader in 3 and under the party central leadership, unity of will is a formidable force, overcome all difficulties, with tremendous passionate devotion economic development ofdevelop china, strengthen my national prestige.history tells us and tells future, deng xiaoping's construction contains the socialism theories of chinese special feature and is like the rich brocade future prospects that the lighthouse illuminates a motherland, the party is central the jian being leading people of the whole country effort go three representativess, with accompany into, constuct middle-class family completely society, head for fine future.

in the great military advance constucting socialism modernization big country, the china children created numerous miracles, in the race of world of lin rang people of this world in different light.you see, shenzhen, bead sea, etc. a batch of special areas in xiamen starts to dig kingsoft, the river bank east new area sticks out the chest, the pride also expresses to write the refreshing headline of developing the china.nine tengs in the steel ultrasaurus big city fly south north, display the magnificent posture of china.hong kong regression, regression in macau, peking states ao success, the china children all receives due acclaim and attention, the hao feeling is ten thousand zhangs.

the capital city in peking, an overseas chinese of over sixty years of age visited city appearance in peking with the regiment, after watching review troops the troops dominant performance, the hot tears maneuvered.his regrets ground says:lately chinese be really getting stronger now, there is motherland doing strong backing, oversea overseas chinese the waist pole is harder, our body is in the overseas and hope a motherland strong, prosperous and prosperous.listen the old man's heartfelt words, i imitate a buddha to touch him that very hot patriotic heart.at the moment, my ear again response my i patriotic of heart, the great wall never pour this male hun, arouse more of singing.this singing calls china children to make great effort to make country strong and create more a house fine tomorrow.

the friends faces the sun, the autumnal winds sends great, let us stand ancient great wall up with deep feeling, with a kind of heroic, with a kind of rites of majesty, start to carry a gold cup, drink to heart's content a joys to celebrate of beautiful wine, lightly soft hand each inch of foot of land, bless our dear people anne from country tai in motherland together, have a bright future.

英语关于父爱的演讲稿篇7

ever since the dawning of the history of mankind, there have been myriads of diversifed inventions, discoveries, and even explorations of the mysteries of the universe. in fact, the human beings are so intelligent that we have solved almost all kinds of problems we have confronted with.

however, nobody has ever made out what the word “love” really connotes, not even the most famous people such as great politicians, saints and philosophers can clarify the meaning of “love”，neither can they deal with the various affairs concerning love. love is like a huge boundless net that shrouds us all in. we can neither break away from it nor escape from it. like it or not, we are always entangled in it. it is an invisible net without any form, that shrouds in different people from different angels; it is a merciless net that upsets us or even tortures us to death. it is also a supreme net which almost no human can surpass. even if they are heroes, emperors, wise men or saints, they can do nothing but show their helplessness in its face. those who can breathe through the holes of the net should be regarded beyond commonness and vulgarity. love can bring us temporary comfort and happiness, but mostly they bring about annoyance and sufferings. maybe this is the reason why many people have seen through the illusions of the mortal world. however it is not so easy to break away from this boundless, ever-existing and indifferent net of love.

love is varied and changeable, but roughly it can be divided into three categories: family love, fraternal love and amatory love. not like monkey king who jumped out of the rocks, we were all born after mother's pregnancy of about nine months, hence we have countless relatives without any choice: parents, grand-parents, and grand-parents-in-law, uncles and aunties, brothers and sisters, etc. and once looking at the genealogical tree, we'll see no end. family love is what everyone longs for, but the warmth and support from our beloved ones are what everyone yearns for the most. but how many of us are determined to contribute to our beloved one? and how many don't expect repayment and relaxed. conscience even if they have the desire and preparation to contribute to their beloved. the distance between relatives is different and so are their expectations. but since it's very difficult to know how much we should expect, a lot of worries and distresses emerge.

parents always expect their children to show their filial obedience, or at least pay them frequent visits after they have got married. if the children fail to do this, they feel hurt and upset, and they'll even complain about their children, because they just can't understand why their children don't care about them after what they have done for the children for so many years to bring them up. nevertheless, one's experience determines his ideology. young children are naturally attached to their parents, but when they grow up, specially when they have made their own friends, and got married, what they need most is independence and freedom, and parents sometimes might become their burden. once there is generation gap, it becomes more difficult to communicate and this keeps them away from their parents. objectively speaking, they need more independence in order to achieve success. in the present society, what the children want to have most is the economic support from their parents, not their moral support or guidance. they would complain if your economic support is not up to their expectations. the love from uncles and aunties would naturally dwindle after they have had their own children. only the love from grand-parents and grand parents-in-law is pure and demands no repayment, and they are also too old to wait for any repayment. as for the distant relatives, their love depends on their needs, just as the old saying goes “the poor have no friends even if they live in downtown while the rich have distant relatives even if they live in deep mountains”。 granny liu, a distant kinsfolk, in a dream of the red mansions , claims kinship with the wealthy jia family, thinking that she may benefit from it in some ways. liu might have run away without any traces if the jia family had been a poor one. another saying goes “close neighbors are better than distant relatives.” the most difficult is to manage the relatives when doing business together, just as what the tv series program liu laogen discloses. it is all right to stay poor together, but as soon as the business grows prosperous, the group will become estranged and even dissolve because of the unfair distribution. family love is like a maze which we shouldn't go too far into it, otherwise, we'll surely get lost. love is a bilateral matter and unilateral love can only lead you to nowhere in spite of your good intentions. family love is, sometimes, like an arranged marriage, leaving no choices to you. due to the different experiences and tastes, staying together temporarily can be entertaining, while living together for a long time can only be boring due to the lack of common interest and understanding. how can we communicate with each other without understanding? parents have the duty to support the children who are not yet economically independent, and children have the responsibility to provide for the elderly parents who are lack of economic abilities to support themselves. except these two kinds of duties which we must fulfill, other kinds of love become conventional formalities such as paying visit to the sick or the dead and giving presents to the newly-born etc.

no love among relatives has become a normal phenomenon which needn't to be fussed about. what's worse is when love is contaminated by money. sooner or later we will get hurt. the sooner we get out of this net of love, the more we can preserve beautiful memories.

we are not living in vacuum, and the society is formed of various kinds of people. as long as we want to live, study, or work, we have to contact, communicate and cooperate with others. those who enjoy common interests, mutual understanding, common undertakings and common benefits become friends.

some friends are called fair-weather friends, because they are together just for entertaining themselves by eating, drinking, and gossiping. once there's nothing to eat and drink, their friendship is finished. some are spiritual friends who share common ambitions, pursuits and education. “they enjoy talking and laughing with the great talents and never make friends with the good-for-nothings”. the best examples would be yu boya and zhong ziqi of the ancient times who are famous not only for their lofty music but mainly for their lofty characters and mutual understanding and appreciation. they cared very little about material wealth, so their friendship is known as “gentlemen's friendship as pure as water”.the third type of friendship belong to those who show their utter devotion to each other. they are ready not only to share weal and woe but also to die for each other, like the three brothers liu, guan and zhang in the novel romance of the three kingdoms. . we all wish to have this kind of friendship, but it's of great difficulty for the ordinary people to be as devoted as they were.

fraternal love or friendship is wide-ranged and flexible. generally speaking, everyone is our friend, just as chairman mao says “our friends are all over the world”。 but transcend age, sex, nationality, state and economic conditions. to them the most important is common benefit, common interest and understanding. friendship is formed during the course of studying, working and fighting. the battle companions who have survived many hazards usually enjoy long-lasting friendship.

however, fraternal love is not stable. being away for too a long time, losing all common benefits, friends will become estranged. once their interest has changed, they no longer understand each other, and even this would harm friendship. at all times and in all countries, many close friends and battle companions who once worked together and fought together became enemies in the end. quiet a few of the emperors in ancient china even killed those who had helped them found their dynasties. the taiping heavenly kingdom would not have failed if it hadn't been for the contending and massacring among the those who first rose in rebellion at the beginning of the uprising. what else we need to pay attention to is that some friends, after being away from each other for too long a time, have lost so much of their original characters that when meeting again, you will feel that you are still the same as you were, while they are no longer themselves. they may have the same feeling about you, so sometimes it's better not to meet each other again. as the chinese proverb goes “friendship can not last for three years and flowers can not stay in blossom for three months”.it's not so easy to maintain real friendship which needs mutual understanding, tolerance and sacrifice. any kinds of harsh treatment will damage friendship.

amatory love has been a mystery for ages. there's neither a criterion to judge nor a common rule to follow. nobody can tell the exact reasons why love emerges. it is not always because of beauty (the ugly doorkeeper quasimodo in the hunchback of notre dame is loved by the beautiful gypsy girl esmeralda),nor kindness (hitler also has his mistress),nor wisdom ( even the blockhead may sometimes marry a beautiful girl),nor strength (some love starts from sympathy).true love is like getting an electric shock, shaking our soul. it is a sweet dream, a kind of intoxication, indulgence, and endless passion.

true love doesn't need a long time to grow up, to make clear the family tree of the other, neither does it needs the time to look ahead and behind again and again. love is not marriage, which usually starts from love, but doesn't always depend on love to maintain. long-lasting marriage can eventually turn into a kind of family love, a kind of companionship which preserves the companion but loses the passion. love is often an wink of the eye, or a smile that hints mutual understanding. in spite of the great distance between them, people may fall in love incidentally. hence the saying “a distant marriage is tied up with a mysterious thread”. love needs passion, and it can stand bumps and stumbles, ups and downs, complaints and blames. when it turns into a pool of water, especially dead water, without any billows or waves, it's time for it to die.

delicacies are tasty, but eating everyday can still make one lose appetite. happiness is what everyone longs for, but too much happiness can spoil people who may not care about the happiness they already have. it's universal to live in happiness without knowing it. the same is true with love. very few people can love the same person passionately all their lives. all love stories come to an end no matter how beautiful they are, which also demonstrate the changeability of love. what one has been chasing wildly may turn into something one wants to get rid of desperately in the end. besides, love is usually blind, especially those who fall in love at the first sight. at the very beginning, both try to demonstrate their beautiful side and cover up their weakness. fooled by the mysterious color of love, one often mistakes the weaknesses as merits. however, as time passes by, frequent contacts make one bored, and even merits become defects, and then the end of love is coming. what's more, there are the capricious men and women who never take love seriously, leaving the devoted ones suffering alone. the saying that the devoted is always abandoned by the heartless has almost become the truth of love affairs. what we can't neglect is that love may turn into hatred, and lovers may also become enemies. the best proof is the numerous divorces.

even though true love is hard to find nowadays, we still can see some true and infatuated boys and girls who readily give up their families, their parents, their studies, their careers and even their lives for love. they love so passionately, crazily and wildly that they hate anyone who is against their love, and may even harm or kill him if he insists on his objection.

love has magical power that can exploit people's potential abilities, bring people's positive factors into full play, and provide people with the courage to face trials and hardships, to go through life and death, and even to risk universal condemnation. even in the ancient feudal society, some people were courageous enough to carry on clandestine love affairs. the examples in point were the courageous ones who dared to love the concubines of the emperors or the children of their foes. love also has miraculous power which can startle the universe and move the gods by attracting the heavenly celestials coming down to earth ( the love story of the cowboy and the weaving girl ),and by turning ghosts into human ( strange tales of liao-zhai ),love can transcend age and generation (dr. sun yat-sen and madam song qingling; luxun and xu guangping).love can show contempt for all conventions and prejudices; love can heal wounds and cure diseases, and love can readjust people's state of mind. of course, the result would be the opposite once it hurts.

great men yearn for true love even more than ordinary people. since the ancient times, so many heroes couldn't help falling into the trap of love that the sex-trap has been regarded as one of the 36 stratagems in military tactics. fuchai, the king of the wu state, couldn't be spared of this trap, and generals dongzhuo and lubu fell deeply into it while xiangyu, the king of the western chu state , bid farewell to his beloved concubine in tears. people may have to pay very high price, even their illustrious name for the love they long for even though it may last for only a very short time. nonetheless no one can tear himself away from love. people often say that their earthly affinity is not yet finished, but in fact it is the love affinity that is the most difficult to finish.

love is shapeless and priceless. we can blame nobody when captured by it. love can not be forced, nor can it be pretended. sympathy is not love, neither is gratitude. love must be generated from the heart, and expressed in actions. it can not be called love without passions and a deep longing from the bottom of the heart. there's no impassable gulf between family love and fraternal love. some family love may turn into friendship. at the same time, natural barriers doesn't exist either between fraternal love and amatory love. some friendship may develop into amatory love. the same is true with amatory love which may change into family love after a long time of mutual grinding and polishing.the closer the relationship, and the higher the expectations are, the more difficult it is to get along with each other. family love, fraternal love and amatory love are three main human feelings. if handled well, they can bring us extreme happiness, while handled improperly, will bring us great sufferings.

the present society is a world of dazzling money and dwindling human feeling contacts. most people hold a snobbish attitude. they only make friends with people of wealth and of high social status. just as zhen shiyen said in his expounding of the song “all good things must end” in a dream of the red mansions “while men with gold and silver by the chest, turn beggars scorned by all and dispossessed”.frankly speaking, however, if we regard money the first thing in whichever one of the three kinds of loves, it will depreciate and even become worthless.

love can not pretend, nor can it tolerate too much selfish motives. it is reported that an old man in jiangsu province left his million yuan heritage to his young housekeeper instead of his own children, because his own children didn't take care of him while the young housekeeper accompanied him through his last lonely and helpless years.

love is easily perceivable and perceptible. flattery words may be cheatable, but true love and false feelings can easily be distinguished. if the people you love only know how to spend your money, you should be careful of them. everyone can help you spend your money if you give them the chance. never turn your love into the slave of money.

love should be selfless, and feelings should be sincere. we shouldn't judge our feelings according to the distance of the relationship. everyone treasures love and nobody can fool himself or the others. a chinese saying goes: real heroes yearn even more for true love, and great men cherish tender love for their children.

we are the saint on earth, and should treasure our love, but we should know how much is good and where to stop. since there's no ever-lasting banquet, nor is there an endless love story, we should take the gains and losses of love with perfect composure. there's fragrant grass in every corner of the earth, and you can always find your love in this world.